Becoming aware of your Mindset and how it is effecting your day to day life is the first step to gaining self-awareness.
Why is your mindset so important?
Well your mindset determines your emotions, which determines your actions, which determines your results.
In the game of life and achieving your goals, the health of your mindset is extremely important.
The Boss Mom Mentality is about becoming clear on your goals and achieving your goals in Motherhood and your life. The topic of your mindset is the foundational pillar of the Boss Up personal development program.
Let’s take a look at somethings that can improve your mindset.
Attitude of Gratitude
Gratitude (n); the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for an to return kindness.
The Law of Attraction is all about being grateful for the things you have in your life. This includes being grateful for the higher vision of your life.
What does this mean? Well, if you have large goals, if you are looking to achieve that job promotion, or that career change that offers a salary increase. This is a higher vision of your life. Be grateful for this higher vision, come from a place that is confident that this higher vision will fruition and belief that you are worthy of this.
Be grateful, this helps with attracting the kind of things that you want to show up in your life.
Cultivate the Attitude of Gratitude and start manifesting the kind of life you deserve.
Goal (n); the object of a person’s ambition or effort; an aim or desired result.
The problem is that most people don’t know what they want. They think they want the fancy life, they want the awesome career, the awesome home, flashy car.
But do you know what kind of awesome career? What kind of fancy life, what kind of awesome home or flashy car? Most don’t know exactly what that looks like. There is no definitive clear vision of how people want their lives to appear.
What does that tell the universe? Well it tells the universe, that you don’t know what you want, therefore you get more of the nothingness of not knowing.
Boss Up Personal Development program is all about becoming clear in your goals, what you what in life, start developing an action plan to get closer and closer to achieving that goal.
Goal Oriented person is someone whom has a goal and their daily actions is placed towards achieving that goal.
Find out what’s your goal.
Authentic (adj); of undisputed origin; genuine.
It is easy to fake it like you make it, but being authentic is easier on the soul, then any other way of going about life.
Be, Do, Have Mindset.
Be authentic, Do authentic activities, you will eventually Have an Authentic mindset, one of which is being honest about your feelings and you honor yourself by being honest.
The Boss Up personal development program is about honoring your feelings. When you honor yourself with being honest about your feelings to the world, an energy gets put out that creates love around you.
A boomerang effect that you attract authentic people and circumstances, which get presented to you because you are authentic.
Start by journaling about your day, what were your High’s and what were your Low’s. Write about why these moments stood out for you and how can be better the next day.
Which leads me to my next topic…
Reflect (v); think deeply or carefully about.
Boss Up personal development program is about reflecting on what works in your life and what isn’t working for you.
Are the actions you put forth in life giving you the results that are closer to achieving your goals?
Are these actions taking aware from achieving your goals?
Reflect regularly by journaling on a daily or weekly basis about what works and what doesn’t work.
A consistent inventory of your life allows you to change things that aren’t working and keep doing things that are working for you.
The Boss Up personal development program is about frequently updating our mindset, action plans and making changes where necessary. The only way to become successful is to constantly revaluate where you are at and improving.
Which leads me to my next point..
Continue to Learn
Learning is the most valuable activity that you can do on a daily basis, whether it be reading, listening to an informative podcast, watching motivational shows, or surrounding yourself with those whom you can learn from.
There is wisdom that others can share with you, that you may not have seen originally… be open to what people can teach you through different forms of it being expressed.
Committed (adj): feeling dedication and loyalty to a cause, activity or job.
Your level of commitment shows the success in your life.. how committed you are with your goals, how committed your are with you work, with your relationships, with maintaining a level of happiness or just overall peace in your life… when you are flighty and non-committal, you dont accomplish growth, success or make traction within maturity.
Being committed is a person that values what they started and sees things through.